Getting Married or Cohabitating Later in Life

Sometimes life gets in the way of love, keeping people from “walking down the aisle” until later in life. If you’re middle-aged or older and are planning to get married or cohabitate with your partner, there are some potentially awkward issues you should probably talk about to make sure you’re on the same page.

Later-in-life marriages often come with strong tethers to people, places, accounts, and things that can complicate decisions and actions—whether it’s your ex-spouse, kids, grandkids, aging parents, debt, personal goals, or something else. It’s a good idea to be sure your trusted partner knows where you stand on these—and that your partner is willing to share similar information with you. Find a comfortable place to sit, chat, and share information about your assets, your goals and expectations. Also, talk about income, bills, and who will pay what—and when—while you’re living together.

Bowling Green State University’s National Center for Family & Marriage Research reports that 28% of 45-to 64-year-olds, and 31% of those 65 plus—are remarried.1 Whatever the reason, there are both advantages and disadvantages to getting married later in life—or to cohabitating, which increased 75% for those 50 and older between 2007 and 2017, according to Pew Research.2

The potential benefits of marrying later in life include:3

  • Problem solving: Your experience and maturity give you and your partner better problem-solving skills and a stronger understanding of the importance of working together to accomplish goals, and overcome difficulties.
  • Combined incomes: Combining incomes and assets—and potentially selling or renting your home or your partner’s home—can create a healthier financial situation.
  • Tax benefits: Getting married gives you and your partner substantial financial and tax benefits. Also, married spouses can receive an unlimited amount of assets from their spouse without having to pay estate taxes.
  • Longer lives: Single men and women don’t stay as healthy or live as long as their married counterparts, according to a study published in the American Journal of Epidemiology.4

The potential problems that can be created by marrying later in life include:5

  • Lack of communication and financial agreements: Some older adults are reluctant to share information about their assets out of concern that the information may influence their partner’s decisions—including about their own healthcare if they become severely ill or incapacitated. For this and other reasons—including the potential for a “gray divorce”—a prenuptial agreement and a well-thought-out estate plan can give you confidence.
  • Higher medical costs: Medical expenses rise as we age, and you will be responsible for your spouse’s debts. Eventually you and/or your spouse may need to go into an assisted living/nursing home.
  • Responsibilities for children from previous relationship: If one spouse has children from a past relationship, the other spouse might have to share the financial responsibility, as a couple.

Other Considerations for Older Couples

A growing number of older couples are choosing to cohabitate instead of get married. Between 2000 and 2020, cohabitation among couples older than 50 quadrupled.6 Reasons included their desire to pass their assets to their kids, and to be able to retain Social Security benefits or alimony from their former spouse.6

Because of potential financial complications for older couples, it’s a good idea to talk to a trusted advisor, accountant, and/or estate lawyer to help you and your partner navigate and avoid potential stumbling blocks that could send you down the road to “gray divorce.” According to the American Bar Association, couples 50 years old and older currently make up a 25% of all divorces, and those 65 and older make up 10%.7

Questions about this topic? Contact First Financial’s Investment & Retirement Center by calling 732.312.1534.  You can also email mary.laferriere@lpl.com or maureen.mcgreevy@lpl.com

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Prior to investing in a 529 Plan, investors should consider whether the investor’s or designated beneficiary’s home state offers any state tax or other state benefits such as financial aid, scholarship funds, and protection from creditors that are only available for investments in such state’s qualified tuition program. Withdrawals used for qualified expenses are federally tax free. Tax treatment at the state level may vary. Please consult with your tax advisor before investing.

1. AARP, June 2, 2023: Financial Checklist for Remarrying After 50

2. Pew Research Center, April 6, 2017: Number of U.S. adults cohabiting with a partner continues to rise, especially among those 50 and older

3. and 5. Senior Care Lifestyles: The Pros and Cons of Marrying Later in Life

4. NBC News, August 18, 2011: Single people may die younger, new study finds

6. Time magazine, September 19, 2021: Why Older Couples Don’t Need Marriage to Have Great Relationships

7. American Bar Association, March 9, 2022: 70s are the new 50s: How Grey Divorce Differs from a Typical Divorce

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529 Plans Can Help With More Than Just College

529 plans were originally created in 1996 as a tax-advantaged way to save for college. Over the past several years, Congress has expanded the ways 529 plan funds can be used, making them a more flexible and versatile savings vehicle.

College – Plus Other Education Expenses

A 529 savings plan can be instrumental in building a college fund — its original purpose. Funds contributed to a 529 savings plan accumulate tax-deferred and earnings are tax-free if the funds are used to pay qualified education expenses, which now include:

  • College expenses: the full cost of tuition, fees, books, and equipment (including computers) and, for students attending at least half time, housing and food costs at any college in the U.S. or abroad accredited by the U.S. Department of Education
  • Apprenticeships programs: the full cost of fees, books, and equipment for programs registered with the U.S. Department of Labor
  • K-12 tuition expenses: up to $10,000 per year

If 529 funds are used to pay a non-qualified education expense, the earnings portion of any withdrawal is subject to ordinary income tax and a 10% penalty.

Estate Planning Tool

529 plans offer grandparents an opportunity to save for a grandchild’s education in a way that accomplishes estate planning goals, while still allowing grandparents access to those funds if needed.

Specifically, due to an accelerated gifting feature unique to 529 plans, grandparents (or other relatives) can contribute a lump sum to a 529 plan of up to five times the annual gift tax exclusion and avoid gift tax by making an election on their tax return to spread the gift equally over five years. In 2025, the gift tax exclusion is $19,000, so grandparents could gift up to $190,000 to a 529 plan for their grandchild ($19,000 x 5 years x 2 grandparents) and avoid gift tax. These funds are not considered part of the grandparents’ estate for federal estate tax purposes (unless one or both grandparents die in the five-year period, in which case special allocation rules apply). And if a grandparent is also the account owner of the 529 plan (529 plan rules allow only one account owner), then the grandparent will retain control of the 529 plan funds (even though the funds are not considered part of the estate) and can access them for health-care needs, an emergency, or any other reason (but the earnings portion of any non-qualified withdrawal will be subject to ordinary income tax and a 10% penalty).

Student Loan Repayment

Nearly 43 million borrowers have student loans, and the average loan balance is approximately $38,000.1 To help families who might have leftover 529 funds after college, Congress expanded the approved use of 529 plan funds in 2019 to include the repayment of qualified education loans up to $10,000 for the 529 beneficiary or a sibling of the beneficiary. This includes federal and private loans.

Retirement Builder: Roth IRA Rollover

As of 2024, 529 account owners can roll over up to $35,000 from a 529 plan to a Roth IRA for the same beneficiary. Any rollover is subject to annual Roth IRA contribution limits, so $35,000 can’t be rolled over all at once. For example, in 2025, the Roth IRA contribution limit is $7,000 (for people under age 50) or 100% of annual earned income, whichever is less, so that is the maximum amount that can be rolled over in 2025.

There are a couple of other caveats. For the rollover to be tax- and penalty-free, the 529 plan must have been open for at least 15 years. And contributions to a 529 account made within five years of the rollover date can’t be rolled over — only contributions outside the five-year window can be rolled over.

Questions about this topic? Contact First Financial’s Investment & Retirement Center by calling 732.312.1500, Option 2.

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Participation in a 529 plan generally involves fees and expenses, and there is the risk that the investments may lose money or not perform well enough to cover college costs as anticipated. The tax implications of a 529 plan can vary significantly from state to state. Most states offering their own 529 plans may provide advantages and benefits exclusively for their residents and taxpayers, which may include financial aid, scholarship funds, and protection from creditors. Before investing in a 529 plan, consider the investment objectives, risks, charges, and expenses, which are available in the issuer’s official statement and should be read carefully. The official disclosure statements and applicable prospectuses contain this and other information about the investment options, underlying investments, and investment company and can be obtained from your financial professional.

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1) educationdata.org, 2024

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Life Insurance in Retirement

What role can life insurance play in your retirement plan? Most of us think of life insurance as protection against financial loss should we die prematurely. But when we reach retirement and the kids are all self-sufficient, do we still need life insurance? The answer is maybe. Here are some situations where life insurance may make sense for retirees or those close to retirement.

Provide a Source of Retirement Income

While life insurance is designed to protect against unexpected economic loss, cash value life insurance also may provide a source of income during retirement. Earnings on the cash value accumulate tax-deferred, and in some instances, cash-value distributions can be received income tax-free. However, loans used to access cash values from a life insurance policy will reduce the policy’s cash value and death benefit, could increase the chance that the policy will lapse, and might result in a tax liability if the policy terminates before the death of the insured.

Help Pay for Long-Term Care

Some cash value life insurance policies provide multiple sources of protection. Along with the death benefit and potential cash value, these policies may also provide a long-term care benefit. Often, these policies allow for a portion or all of the death benefit to be “accelerated” if used for the payment of qualifying medical and long-term care expenses.

Provide for a Dependent Family Member

Sometimes, even in retirement, there are family members who depend on you for financial and/or custodial support. Should you die unexpectedly, life insurance may help provide funds needed to support dependent family members with disabilities.

Replace Income for a Surviving Spouse

While Social Security provides retirement income for many of us, at the death of a spouse, his or her benefits end, reducing the total benefits available to the surviving spouse. Life insurance can be used to replace the loss of income for the surviving spouse.

Pay Off Debt

While past generations often retired with little or no debt, it is not uncommon for today’s retirees to leave the workforce while still carrying a mortgage, car loan, and credit card debt. Life insurance can provide the cash to pay off these debts, which is especially beneficial for a surviving spouse.

Help Cover Final Expenses

Unfortunately, the expense of dying is often overlooked or underestimated. Uninsured medical bills, funeral costs, debts, and estate administration costs can add up. Typically, these expenses are paid in a lump sum, which can reduce savings for surviving spouses and dependent family members. Proceeds from life insurance can be used to help pay for these final expenses, which may help preserve savings for other needs.

Leave a Legacy

For many approaching retirement, as well as for those already there, a primary concern is having enough money to live comfortably. While conserving savings and keeping track of spending in retirement are important, all too often retirees will forgo spending on themselves in order to fulfill a desire to leave a legacy. Having life insurance can help you feel freer to spend more in retirement because you know you’ll be leaving something behind for your loved ones.

Life insurance provides protection for your family’s financial future should you die during your working years. However, life insurance may provide other benefits that can be useful during your retirement. Whether life insurance should be part of your retirement plan is best determined based on your individual circumstances and goals. You may want to talk with an insurance or financial professional before making this decision.

The cost and availability of life insurance depend on factors such as age, health, and the type and amount of insurance purchased. Before implementing a strategy involving life insurance, it would be prudent to make sure that you are insurable. As with most financial decisions, there are expenses associated with the purchase of life insurance. Policies commonly have mortality and expense charges. In addition, if a policy is surrendered prematurely there may be surrender charges and income tax implications. Any guarantees associated with payment of death benefits, income options, or rates of return are based on the financial strength and claims-paying ability of the insurer.

Questions about this topic? Contact First Financial’s Investment & Retirement Center by calling 732.312.1534.

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Debt After Death: What Happens to Debt When Someone Dies?

Losing a loved one is never easy. In addition to the emotional challenges you may face, you might also be worried about what will happen to their debt once they are gone. Generally, with limited exceptions, when a loved one dies you will not be liable for their unpaid debt. Instead, their debt is typically addressed through the settling of their estate.

How are debts settled when someone dies?

The process of settling a deceased person’s estate is called probate. During the probate process, a personal representative (known as an executor in some states) or administrator if there is no will, is appointed to manage the estate and is responsible for paying off the decedent’s debt before any remaining estate assets can be distributed to beneficiaries or heirs. Paying off a deceased individual’s debt can significantly lower the value of an estate and may even involve the selling of estate assets, such as real estate or personal property.

Debts are usually paid in a specific order, with secured debt (such as a mortgage or car loan), funeral expenses, taxes, and medical bills generally having priority over unsecured debt, such as credit cards or personal loans. If the estate cannot pay the debt and no other individual shares legal responsibility for the debt (e.g., there is no cosigner or joint account holder), then the estate will be deemed insolvent and the debt will most likely go unpaid.

Estate and probate laws vary, depending on the state, so it’s important to discuss your specific situation with an attorney who specializes in estate planning and probate.

What about cosigned loans and jointly held accounts?

A cosigned loan is a type of loan where the cosigner agrees to be legally responsible for the loan payments if the primary borrower fails to make them. If a decedent has an outstanding loan that was cosigned, such as a mortgage or auto loan, the surviving cosigner will be responsible for the remaining debt.

For cosigned private student loans, the surviving cosigner is usually responsible for the remaining loan balance, but this can vary depending on the lender and terms of the loan agreement.

If a decedent had credit cards or other accounts that were jointly held with another individual, the surviving account holder will be responsible for the remaining debt. Authorized users on credit card accounts will not be liable for any unpaid debt.

Are there special rules for community property states?

If the decedent was married and lived in a community property state, the surviving spouse is responsible for their spouse’s debt as long as the debt was incurred during the marriage. The surviving spouse is responsible even if he or she was unaware that the deceased spouse incurred the debt.

How much debt Americans expect to leave behind when they die:

 

 

 

 

 

 

Source: Debt.com Death and Debt Survey, 2024

What if you inherit a home with a mortgage?

Generally, when you inherit a home with a mortgage, you will become responsible for the mortgage payments. However, the specific rules will vary depending on your state’s probate laws, the type of mortgage, and the terms set by the lender.

Can you be contacted by debt collectors?

If you are appointed the personal representative or administrator of your loved one’s estate, a debt collector is allowed to contact you regarding outstanding debt. However, if you are not legally responsible for a debt, it is illegal for a debt collector to use deceptive practices to suggest or imply that you are. Even if you are legally responsible for a debt, under the Fair Debt Collection Practices Act (FDCPA), debt collectors are not allowed to unduly harass you.

Finally, beware of scam artists who may pose as debt collectors and try to coerce or pressure you for payment of your loved one’s unpaid bills.

Questions about this topic or looking to get started with estate planning? Contact First Financial’s Investment & Retirement Center by calling 732.312.1534.  You can also email mary.laferriere@lpl.com or maureen.mcgreevy@lpl.com

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Investing for the Future

Building a retirement portfolio takes patience and diligence. Your goal is simple: accumulate enough wealth to sustain you through your post-retirement years.

Easier said than done, right?

The key is to take the steps that will help you save enough to support your lifestyle standards. Here are a few things you can do to make sure that your plan is on track.

First, check in and check in often. It may have been several years ago when you first crunched the numbers and arrived at your bottom-line figure for what you’ll need to retire. Revisit those numbers regularly to guard against any large changes, as well as to adjust to any market volatility.

Calculate your Social Security income, any pension money, accumulated savings, and personal investments, and determine whether together they can cover your living expenses. Account for swings in the market, estimating any projected gains conservatively. If you find that your number is coming up short, talk to a financial professional who can help you reconfigure or rebalance your portfolio, as needed.

Next, manage your inflation risk and the impact it can have on your investments. That doesn’t mean replacing everything with less risky assets, but it does mean you should consider moving some of your equity investments into fixed income and cash, reserving enough growth-oriented investments that together will have the potential to help you sustain significant losses.

Develop an estate plan that preserves your assets for future generations. This can get complicated if you have a lot of assets, and you’ll benefit from consulting with an attorney who specializes in this area. They can help you draft a trust and various types of insurance tools to help protect your assets from estate taxes.

Finally, revisit your financial plan and goals with a financial professional regularly, addressing any potential problems before they impact your savings.

Questions about this topic? Contact First Financial’s Investment & Retirement Center by calling 732.312.1534.  You can also email mary.laferriere@lpl.com or maureen.mcgreevy@lpl.com

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Managing Money as a Couple

It’s February, and Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. While this might be the month to celebrate love, it could also be a good time to go over your finances with your Valentine. When you marry or share a household with someone, your life changes—and your approach to managing your money may change as well. The good news is it’s usually not so difficult.

At some point, you will have to ask yourselves some money questions—questions that pertain not only to your shared finances but also to your individual finances. Waiting too long to ask (or answer) those questions might have some consequences. It’s also good habit (even if you’ve been together for a long time) to review these questions annually as well.

How do you propose setting priorities? One of your first priorities should be simply setting aside money that may help you build an emergency fund. But there are other questions to ask. Should you open joint accounts? How should you title assets that are owned by both of you?

How much will you spend and save? Budgeting can help you arrive at your answer. A simple budget, an elaborate budget, or any attempt at a budget can prove more informative than you realize. A thorough, line-item budget may seem a little over the top, but what you learn from it may be truly eye-opening.

How often will you check up on your financial progress? When finances affect two people rather than one, statements can become more important. Checking in on these details once a month (or at least once a quarter) may keep you both informed, so that neither one of you have misconceptions about household finances or assets. Arguments can be avoided when money misunderstandings are resolved through check-ups.

What degree of independence do you want to maintain? Do you want to keep some money separate? Some spouses need individual financial “space” of their own. There is nothing wrong with this approach.

Can you be businesslike about your finances? Spouses who are inattentive or nonchalant about financial matters may encounter more financial trouble than they anticipate. Watch where your money goes, and think about ways to pay yourself first. Set shared short-term, medium-term, and long-term objectives.

Communication is key to all this. Watching your progress together may well have benefits beyond the financial, so a regular conversation should be the goal.

If you still have questions, or you’d like more information on how to best manage your finances as a couple – we’re here to help. You can call or email the financial professionals in the First Financial Investment & Retirement Center at 732-312-1534, mary.laferriere@lpl.com or maureen.mcgreevy@lpl.com

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